Whatever leads to seeing through others better than through oneself, is subconsciously intended as self protection. In its logical consequence it will ultimately expose your own hiding self to others. Being honest is the true meaning of being brave and ready for what it takes to see through oneself. So real honesty is hard inward and soft to the environment. This is how we can develop the deeper value of honesty and experience it as a way of true love. But neither will be anyone able to be honest all the time, nor to express oneself within absolute clarity. To manage this paradoxical condition with its inevitable discrepancy to perfection, is the eternal task as well as responsibility of every cognitive form of life. The way we try to master it, is the way we are. The way we act, fail and love. Let’s talk together truly open, finding lovely ways of being honest. And maybe you will find how to see through your own shadow, recognizing the enlightened self. And us.
